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Red Ribbons for 2011

Posted by Deeda on Sunday, January 2, 2011, In : Life 

The curtain draws for 2010 an unforgettable end to a decade of renaissance marked by a collage of inevitable events in history that will remain in our memories for a long time to come.

Like the unfolding of a mighty scroll
Of time so invincible and space so unlimited
2010 rolled by into the mystical calendar
Of a passing era, flying high like red ribbons in the sky
A decade of renaissance
Bringing to our remembrance
A magical collage of gruesome pictures of the inevitable
Intense shades of red, spl...


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Five Reasons to Live a Life of Accountability

Posted by Deeda on Monday, November 29, 2010, In : Life 

The principle of accountability is an ancient one, originated by God Himself. It basically means one has to answer to another. Who should answer to whom and why, is always a source of contention for many. The result of this contentious attitude is the lack of peace, joy, and contentment in our relationships with one another and with our creator. Below are five reasons why we must learn to escape the consequences and turmoil associated with living our lives as though we are accountable to no o...


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Thanksgiving: Ten Things to be Thankful For

Posted by Deeda on Tuesday, November 23, 2010, In : Religion 

Thanksgiving season is the allocated time to indulge in excessive eating and drinking as a show of our gratitude for blessings received all year round. It should also be considered as a time of reflection during which we can focus our attention on specific blessings that we take for granted. Below are ten things we should be grateful for, not only over Thanksgiving, but all year round.



·        Life: Life is a gift from God. It is therefore a privilege to be counted amongst the livi...


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Thanksgiving Poem

Posted by Deeda on Friday, November 19, 2010, In : Life 

Thanks today and everyday we must give

 For clear blue sky, fair weather, and unfair too

 Hurricanes, tornadoes, floods and drought

 We have survived just so we can testify

 Thanks today we should give

 For loved ones far and near

 For those who fight for our freedom

 And for them who wait for their return

 For those who spare a smile even on the bad days

 To cheer us up, when hope seems lost

 For the love we share, and the times we enjoy

 For good memories, and for the not so g...


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Ten Reasons Why Marriage is Still Beautiful

Posted by Deeda on Friday, November 5, 2010, In : Family 

Divorce rates in our society today are sky-rocketing. Common law marriages and live-in partnerships are being substituted for the Godly commitment of marriage. At least sixty percent of married couples come to an end before within twenty five years. What is it about this Godly institution, which people today seem to dread to commit to completely? Is it possible that marriage has become old-fashioned and therefore lost its appeal? Do people simply not understand the original purpose of marriag...


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A Psalm Prayer for Our Youth

Posted by Deeda on Wednesday, October 27, 2010, In : Religion 

The Book of Psalms chapter 144 was written by David after his encounter with his son Absalom, who tried to dethrone him as King. It is a passionate plea to God asking for a safe community and deliverance from “strange children” through His divine intervention.  It is said that there is nothing new under the sun. Therefore, after the world seemingly runs through a full circle and history begins to repeat itself, it is time for a change. The circumstantial similarities between the occurrenc...


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The Legitimacy of Fast-Track Parenting (Part 2)

Posted by Deeda on Thursday, October 21, 2010, In : Family 

Of the conventional social responsibilities and choices that we have to make as individuals, parenting seems to have been hit the hardest by issues of rights and legality. The result of this trend continues to place our so called rights above our response-ability to do right. A suitable analogy is the act of mortgaging our conscience at the expense of being legal. We cannot discipline our children today for fear of being accused of unfair treatment and abuse. Parents who should instinctively ...


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The Legitimacy of Fast-Track Parenting (Part 1)

Posted by Deeda on Saturday, October 16, 2010, In : Family 

Fast food, instant coffee and quick fixes; a few words that well describe our acquired and legitimate way of life on the “fast lane”. Nevertheless, can we truly afford to deal with the delicate subject of parenting in the same way we do our “on the go” meals? Parenting comes with such intuitive and divinely orchestrated responsibilities that a few hours of parenting class prescribed by a psychologist or social worker is never enough to deal with the core issues that are associated wit...


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Ten Disease-Causing Emotions & Tips on How to Reduce Their Risks

Posted by Deeda on Monday, August 23, 2010, In : Life 

Nobody goes through life without experiencing emotions. They are an integral part of our beings. “E-motions”, whether positive or negative, are simply “energy-in-motion” released primarily in response to events or circumstances that we face daily. However, a constant expression of negative E-motions increases our risk of serious health problems. Below are ten emotions which carry high premium health consequences and some simple tips on how to reduce the risks associated with them.

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Will The Real Fathers Please Stand Up!

Posted by Deeda on Wednesday, June 23, 2010, In : Family 

My good friend called the other day, weeping like a baby.  Apparently, she had been bitten by the “Father’s Day bug”. A few years ago, she lost her father whom she loved dearly, in a battle with the big C. Ever since, she periodically succumbs helplessly to episodes of grieving. Episodes that would make anyone wonder what a wonderful man her father must have been. 

Most daughters tend to be “daddy’s girl” indefinitely. I can say this with such conviction because my dad was my be...


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Living Sacrifice or Marriage Martyr?

Posted by Deeda on Saturday, June 19, 2010, In : Family 

The other day, I invited a friend to an outreach dinner meeting for ministers and she never showed up.  She was not one to miss an opportunity for fellowship like that. So, what happened? After speaking with her, this was what I learned. She, along with some other members of her congregation, had to take their “first lady” out of town in a hurry. This was because she had been beaten to a pulp by her tongue speaking, demon chasing Bishop husband. My first reaction – “why on God’s ear...


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